Donkeys live a long time 4: Gifted Friendships

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Sprite was obviously disturbed that she did not know where she fitted into the world of George Orwell’s Animal Farm. https://spritessite.wordpress.com/2014/07/27/donkeys-live-a-long-time-3/

In fact Sprite often has a problem with working out exactly how she fits in.
So I tried another approach.
“Who would your friends be on Animal Farm?” I asked her.

“Well, not the sheep, that’s for sure!” she said “The sheep are like the kids in my class. I guess I would be friends with Boxer and Clover, the horses. I like the chickens too – maybe I could join in protests with them. I would admire Old Major but I probably wouldn’t ever meet him and I would try to make friends with Benjamin the Donkey.

Sprite has always found making and keeping friends quite a challenge!

This is partly because she is an introvert
https://spritessite.wordpress.com/2011/09/03/gifted-island-challenge-2-getting-to-know-myself-with-a-little-help-from-my-friends-the-results-are-in/

It is also because she is not very good at reading facial expressions

https://spritessite.wordpress.com/2010/03/27/wink-wink/

https://spritessite.wordpress.com/2011/09/15/dandelion-wishes/

It is mainly because there are so few people in the whole population, let alone in her immediate circle of acquaintances, who are at the same IQ level as Sprite.  Also her interests, which she likes to discuss at length, are not generally popular with her age peers.

https://spritessite.wordpress.com/2009/07/01/talkfest/

So Sprite’s friends are usually older students, adults, animals and the characters that inhabit her rich imaginary world and the pages of books.

In fact some of her best friends are books!
http://www.greatpotentialpress.com/some-of-my-best-friends-are-books-3rd-edition

 

The Tweet family has also experienced difficulty with attempting to find same age friends for their gifted tweetlets.
https://spritessite.wordpress.com/2013/03/11/socialization/

https://spritessite.wordpress.com/2013/03/14/socialization-2/

Professor Miraca Gross of GERRIC has written a wonderful article about the importance of a true friend which can be read in the SENG archives at
http://www.sengifted.org/archives/articles/play-partner-or-sure-shelter-what-gifted-children-look-for-in-friendship

And Maureen Neihart has written about finding true peers at
https://tip.duke.edu/node/914

The Hoagies Gifted Education Blog Hop for August has the theme of Gifted Friendships
Links to all the posts in the blog hop can be found at
http://www.hoagiesgifted.org/blog_hop_gifted_friendships.htm

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